chore: upgrade spacetimedb and stabilize dev startup

vite.config.ts

@@ -7,6 +7,8 @@ import {defineConfig, loadEnv} from 'vite';
 export default defineConfig(({mode}) => {
   const env = loadEnv(mode, __dirname, '');
   const ignoredWatchGlobs = [
+    '**/.git/**',
+    '**/.worktrees/**',
     '**/dist/**',
     '**/dist_check/**',
     '**/dist_check_final/**',
@@ -22,6 +24,7 @@ export default defineConfig(({mode}) => {
     '**/media/**',
     '**/scripts/**',
     '**/server-rs/**',
+    '**/server-rs/target/**',
     '**/*.test.ts',
     '**/*.test.tsx',
     '**/*.spec.ts',