chore: upgrade spacetimedb and stabilize dev startup

apps/admin-web/vite.config.ts

@@ -16,6 +16,14 @@ export default defineConfig(({mode}) => {
     env.GENARRATIVE_API_TARGET ||
     `http://127.0.0.1:${env.GENARRATIVE_API_PORT || '3100'}`;
   const base = env.ADMIN_WEB_BASE || '/admin/';
+  const ignoredWatchGlobs = [
+    '**/.git/**',
+    '**/.worktrees/**',
+    '**/dist/**',
+    '**/node_modules/**',
+    '**/server-rs/**',
+    '**/server-rs/target/**',
+  ];
 
   return {
     root: adminWebRoot,
@@ -23,6 +31,9 @@ export default defineConfig(({mode}) => {
     base,
     plugins: [react()],
     server: {
+      watch: {
+        ignored: ignoredWatchGlobs,
+      },
       proxy: {
         '/admin/api': {
           target: apiTarget,